Food travels!

Visiting India after such a long gap was a much needed break and it was also an experience that was a treat for all of one’s senses! It was the most amazing culinary experience. From the spicy ghee dripping parathas of Northern India to the typical fauji mess-style food and the simplistic Meitei cooking…and to add to all of this lots of lovingly made home cooked food everywhere we went. Each morsel was a culinary journey.

The mouth watering ghee-dripping, high calorie, aromatic Dhaba food along a highway in Northern India
Shatabdi express (train) served all this – a neatly packed vegetarian sandwich, a samosa, some sweets & I don’t recollect what the thing was in that red packet. It was all very neatly packed & service was amazing which was a great experience considering the not so great experience on Jet airways!!
Tenowanbi

This variety of beans I’ve so far only come across in north eastern states of India. Its eaten raw in salads & has a delightful crunchy taste. It goes amazingly well with a paste that’s made with fermented fish or ngaari and it tastes heavenly if you’re into that sort of thing! 🙂

One can never go wrong with deep fried fresh water fish
Singju – It’s the manipuri equivalent of a salad but is 99% of the time way too fiery for the non-north eastern palate! The 1% is for children and tourists! It’s incredibly healthy, crunchy and full of flavours. If you haven’t had singju in Manipur, you’ve pretty much missed the plot! 

And some more fried little fish which were bought from the local fish market in Dimapur, Nagaland… perhaps fresh catch from the nearby river?! I can assure you, it was delicious!  

The Brahmans or Bamons in Meitei culture traditionally prepare the feast for all ceremonial or religious occasions. They have a penchant for making food taste heavenly even without such ingredients like ginger, garlic & onion and even meat and fish. Each dish they prepare is a testimony to an extraordinary culture that spans hundreds of years that is featured in a place as epic as the Mahabharata and in modern equestrian sport. 
And the countless cups of tea daily… so many cups shared over so many thoughts, joys, laughter & pain.
Next destination : Dimapur, Nagaland – the land of mysterious tribes & magical traditions!

Walking through a local market in Dimapur

The amazingly sweet & colourful maize corn that’s commonly found in the northeastern states of India

Bhoot Jholakiya/ ghost chillies/ Oomorok… whatever you’d like to call it… it doesn’t temper the hotness of this chilli variety… tread..i mean taste with care!!

Fat juicy silk worms… high in protein & apparently very yummy.. nope..I didn’t try it! 

So green…so greeennnnnnn

Bee pupae still in their honeycombs
Dried fresh water fish of all possible varieties
Dimapur & Nagaland in general was full of delectable surprises. As is with every ancient tribal or ex-tribal society, there’s an interesting mix of flavours and characters in the local cuisine. Dimapur has some fantastic restaurants that’ll even surprise the seasoned restaurateur. 

 Raj Kachori Chaat at Gangaur in Kolkatta. Kolkatta street-style food is the bestest everrrrr!!!!! When visiting Kolkatta, one must sample all the amazing street food you get there – puchka, jhaal-muri, dahi chaat, momos, chowmein, rolls… yum yum drool drool

The classic egg-chicken roll from Nizams! 
If one begins to write about the varieties of cuisines one can find in India, one would run out of pages. Each cuisine from each region is distinct and an extraordinary experience. I’m sure I’ll still have plenty to write about Indian regional cuisines in the days to come… till then Bon Apettit!!

Yuletide Greetings from ol’ me :-) Happy Holidays!!!!!

Enjoy the lovely weather with people you love!

I hope Santa brings by plenty of gifts for you & your family!

perhaps little robin might…

And then we can all get together and sing a little song…

That’ll echo all night long…

And bells will chime & hearts will be warm

As around the tree everyone swarms…
WIshing everyone a Yuletide cheer
May you always enjoy the company of your dears
May the holidays bring you joy
And the love around you always remain.
Happy Holidays everyone… fun times have now begun!!!!! 

Homesick!

Such an overwhelming feeling of nostalgia,

a longing of the familiar little streets & lanes of a home I once used to call my own, a feeling that its all gone & slipped away…

I don’t want to hold on to them in a way that I want them to stay the same

but sometimes I find myself remembering such moments.

Its such a bitter sweet aching, it squeezes my heart & pours out from my eyes.

Its not really helping that I’m listening to some really gentle and sweet music.

The rhythms take me through to dancing figures moving in perfect tandem with the music…

it weaves its way through temple corridors of a culture well preserved for generations,

of shady tree lined roads in a city that will be my final resting place,

passing & crossing bridges that have enthralled me with the rivers they cross,

with the boats that seem to carry people form one realm to another sometimes gently and sometimes through turbulent currents…

I hold these moments gently in my heart & let them go so that theres room for more memories to be created

but ever so often when i read a book, or hear a tune, or watch the rain

these seemingly insignificant moments come back & steal a tear from my eyes

dedicated to the brave soldiers now long gone across the globe

Brave men they were who went to war

to fight for freedom in many a land so far

they would bring back hope & victory for their nation

the nation would celebrate them in grateful exultation

and then there were those who never came back

who’s sacrifices bore heavy on their comrades sack

their hopes and dreams interred in lands far away

their lives that were short but every minute held sway

they left behind hearts heavy in grief

their memories forever even if meetings were brief

when the wars were on, there were brave women too

who sacrificed for themselves as well for me & for you

they left their aprons & ladles back in their homes

they made tanks and machines and even bombs

they carried the weight of iron on their nimble feet

along with the weight of their babies heartbeats

it doesn’t matter if you are from here or across seven seas

never forget the sacrifices they made so that we may live in peace

friends

Friends we knew and loved have now grown into their own.
Some on familiar grounds & some heading towards territories unknown.
When I hear from them, moments of familiarity beckons
And we know we can look back together as the future reckons
There’s a trust sometimes that transcends distances & borders
There are friends who will always be just what the doctor orders!

Learning….

Years have passed and dreams have moulded themselves differently as I had once expected them to be

My mission to Pluto seems to be just as far away and the dogs in my old neighborhood still run astray

Children are still dying from unheard diseases across the globe for a vaccine I never did invent to cure all human ailments
I haven’t yet learnt how to drive a car properly let alone a Boeing 747
and the fuel industry still burns the planet for the wonder fuel that I never created
No Grammy or Oscar award sits on my mantlepiece looking adoringly at me
and no accolades for having discovered a new plant or animal species
And despite all that I’ve learnt a million things that I can’t even understand for real
These learnings & gifts can’t be found in things material…
To treat people kindly and love with all my heart and that in Gods eyes all are equal…
for the earthquake and the tsunamis don’t spare the rich, the poor, the beautiful or the ugly!
I’ve learnt that pain doesn’t spare anyone but I can choose to handle it differently
That happiness is only a state of mind as much is sorrow
That the night always will be followed by tomorrow…
That everyone only really wishes to be loved and accepted so that they can learn & grow

Thank You Oprah!

Talking to my brother this afternoon an interesting thought came up. For the last decade or so, whenever we, meaning my my two sisters, my brother & myself, have spoken to each other over the phone we’ve always ended conversations with ‘love you’s! And as a habit now I tell my close friends and family I love them at the end of each telephonic conversation I have with them. And this we owe to Ms Oprah Winfrey!!!! There’s so much to thank her for even though I’ve never met her and may or may not ever meet her.

When the cable revolution began in India back in the 90s, it very quickly became one of our favourite shows. Whilst our friends were following the lives of the Forester family and the ups and downs of life in Santa Barbara, my sisters & I were immersed in the world of the talk show, very specifically in the Oprah show.

There’s much to thank her for. Thanks to her shows, I learnt about the real hardships faced by the black American community in America during the post WWII era. I cried along with all the other members in the audience when the first Black American girl to attend regular school was on the show after so many decades. I watched in awe as brave firefighters shared rescue stories. I also learnt some very valuable lessons – there was one about heartbreaking accidents where a woman accidentally ran over her own grandson because she hadn’t seen him in the rear view mirror – how could she; he was barely 2 feet high & had rushed out without creating any noise! After that I recall telling everyone to get out of their cars and checking if there was anyone behind as one can’t see the entire view from the rear-view mirror!
The stories were always poignant and about the strength, the kindness & beauty of the human spirit. In one of the episodes, she interviewed people who had lost loved ones suddenly and it was saddening to see so many people’s greatest regret was that they didn’t get to tell their loved one how much they loved them. Oprah spoke about how important it was to let your loved ones know how much you loved them lest this be our last day in this life. It really hit me very hard and I decided right then that I shall do exactly that. Of course this was the most difficult task as I come from a family that is far from expressive about their feelings unless it was a feeling of anger or annoyance or something negative. Besides it was almost a taboo to use the ‘i love you’ words! Well it took time but now its become part of our family conversations. I recollect the first time my dad said he missed me… I was sad & happy all at the same time. Happy because I got to hear it for the first time form him. The tears wouldn’t stop for a long time.
But I mostly want to thank Oprah for introducing loving kindness in our lives. For her we know about struggles of women across the globe and of pioneering women and men who have set out to change the world positively one stitch or one book at a time.
Dedicated to you Oprah, the most inspiring woman I’ve ever seen & hope to meet someday! I first saw your show when I was 17… I’m 31 now and I still love your shows as much as I did then! Earlier this year I learnt that her show was about to come to an end… I wonder if there ever will be another personality like her for a long time!
With Love.

Identity

Naga Totem Pole (Nagaland, India)

Native American/Red Indian Totem Pole (USA)
Totem is about identity and totem poles and symbols distinguish tribes from each other in certain parts of the world. What is fascinating is that some of these totems made halfway across the globe are remarkably identical in their stylisation.
Who’s to say who were the original creators of these marks of identity! Did it crop up simultaneously across the human race – the need to be identified for various reasons or did one start & the rest emulated and copied!
The more we try to look for our differences, the more similarities we shall find.
(Image source: Wikipedia)